I do not know any member of the family who has had so many changes in appearance. When I knew her well, she was a pretty, tiny older thing, well dressed, tough but nice. Some of her early pictures were very pretty, but with a devilish smile. Some of these pictures she looked like a dressed brick. So many changes in her life, but always well dressed (even if the brick picture was not flattering) and she seemed to be inspirational as a mother.